Wednesday, July 31, 2013
It was raining so the kids decided to play ludo. I had to marvel at Léon's logic. He was playing just with Charlotte at that point. One of the purple men was missing. He wanted to be purple and Charlotte blue so obviously he had two solutions - either they could each play with three men, or he could take say green and play three purple and a green against her four blue. Oh no! That would be way too simple. I walked in in time to hear him explain that he would take three purple and a blue and she could have three blue and a red and he would just keep his eye on his blue one as it went round the board so as not to get it mixed up with any of hers! Mind boggling!
It's sad to think no one else will have the same wonderful memories as we have and we'll never be able to take Amaia back and show her where it all happened, given she was the only one of the kids who wasn't present.
My first wedding had also been in stunning surroundings - Glasgow University Chapel. Back then though, through immaturity and expectation I had ended up with a religious wedding, which was wholly inappropriate as I was an atheist even back then. And there was also the wee problem that I was marrying the wrong man back then! ;-)
Park Circus was wonderful, meaningful and it a beautifully religion-free zone. It was intimate and spontaneous and everything I had hoped for.
Tuesday, July 30, 2013
Sure Lots is so silly - she sometimes wears shes trousers even when it is so sunny. Not like we - we wear wes dresses in the sun and wes wellies in the snow!
I know I need to start correcting her - but it's just so cute!
Sunday, July 28, 2013
We were supposed to be taking the kids to see Monsters' University today at the Odeon. As a family we have probably only been to the cinema once, that I can remember - years ago - possibly before Amaia was born.
So I brought up the online cinema price to book - there was a surcharge for booking before you arrived, but even if you bought your tickets in the cinema and went in without so much as a jellybean, never mind popcorn, they want £49-70 for one showing for our family. A family, you see, is apparently two adults with two children, extra kids pay an extra £6-90 and bringing teenagers costs £7-60 (each). Over and over I find large families are priced out of all pastimes that modern kids take for granted.
So it looks like we'll be waiting, as always, till the DVD comes out at Xmas. Sigh!
This week I have heard two extremes - adoration, which I don't understand because he is just a baby, like every other one, and venom calling for the crowd of spongers to be thrown out. I feel neither... I feel pity because he was born with his whole life already decided, and to me freedom is a sad thing to exchange for these meaningless privileges.
Thursday, July 25, 2013
I walked into my bedroom (where the only full-length mirror in the house is) to find Anna posing in front of it in only her pants:
You know mummy, she ventured, I just can't wait till I grow up to be a teenager so I can wear the kind of clothes that don't fit!
I must have looked blank or at least surprised because she elaborated: You know, teenagers like to wear t-shirts that are too small for them so you can see their belly buttons!
Oh my lord! This one is going to be a trendy little handful!
Sunday, July 21, 2013
Léon is a jumpy wee guy, always buzzing about in a manic fashion when you take him somewhere fun. Today in the sea he was running about wildly but even I was quite surprised when I uploaded the photos. Somehow he was being so hyper, I actually managed to catch him walking on water! (And me, an atheist too! ;-) )
Saturday, July 20, 2013
I remember once as a child going to the coast with a friend from my primary school class. Her parents lived very near mine and some how I got invited along with her and her younger brother. I remember walking through long grass and over a small dune to reach the beach. I even remember yellow flowers. I have often wondered where that beach was but as the friend in question died last summer, I can no longer ask her. I had ruled out Ayr and Prestwick and I know it was nearby so I am beginning to suspect it was South beach at Troon. Although I have been to North beach at Troon a couple of times in recent years, I don't think I was ever on South beach till today so it's nice to finally put a name to a distant memory from the mid-70s at last.
Léon asked me today if we could buy this house in Troon if we win the lotto at the weekend! It looks about the right size for us... and I didn't have the heart to tell him I don't play it!
I had begun to believe it was Scotland itself rather than its shitty climate that I disliked. As the summer approached I was beside myself in dread at the thought of staying here. I have not stayed in Scotland for a whole year without escaping to recharge my sun batteries since 1985. (One of the advantages of having family abroad!)
The first couple of days of the holiday saw the thermometer hit a balmy 9 degrees. I was ready to jump off the nearest bridge and put myself out of my misery! A week later though it shot up to the high twenties and has been there ever since. We haven't had a single meal indoors in three weeks now and we're living the life I loved so much from my years in France, Italy and Germany. Thomas and I have been trying to take two days out of work a week to run the kids to the coast on day trips to compensate their non-holiday this year and my evenings after dinner are still spent in the garden.
I'm suddenly realising that the issue is all climate. What I miss living here is that outdoor life you have in continental Europe. Now we have that here I am completely content. I'm actually liking Scotland for the first time in living memory. I hate being locked away indoors, eating indoors with the kids going stir-crazy. It is so much nicer to sit in the garden with a glass of wine at 7pm listening to kids jumping and splashing in pools in every garden in the street.
Today I was wandering about Troon, even considering retiring there one day because it was so beautiful.
Of course, given this summer is probably a one-off since 1976, I will quickly find myself terribly disappointed and start planning my escape to Europe again, as soon as the normal weather returns. But in the meantime, it is definitely helping me cope with my current dearth of holiday.
Friday, July 19, 2013
It is therefore with an almost daily sense of surprise that I find myself walking around in this large group of people, all created by me and calling me mum! I almost find myself looking over my shoulder to see who they are addressing as that - it couldn't be little me, could it? But somehow it is! It is a great privilege.
For the first time since the summer of '85 we haven't booked a holiday - too much work in the summer coming after a winter of not enough has made holidaying a bit unlikely, at least before the autumn or winter. As I dragged my feet, depressed towards the summer school break-up, little did I know that Scotland was about to become a spectacular suntrap. We've been trying to take the kids to the coast a couple of times a week, so they don't feel left out, and it's been as hot down there as my many summers in Cannes and Nice. What an unexpectedly pleasant surprise! If we were to get stuck home for one summer, it looks like we chose the right one!
... or is it always like this and no one's ever mentioned it to me because I'm always out of the country???
Thursday, July 18, 2013
Sunday, July 14, 2013
Parked on front of my house. .. Have I forgotten my birthday? !, a photo by PhylB on Flickr.
Someone has parked this in front of my house all afternoon - how thoughtless - I am sitting here drooling! Isn't it just beautiful? Léon and I found it when we went out to pick some wild flowers - if it is still there in the morning, I might just have to put it on my Xmas list!
It is exactly one week short of a year since she decided (completely unprompted by me or anyone else I hasten to add) to remove her father from her life. She cited the fact that they didn't get on and he had a tendency to treat her as if she was a mini-me. He assumed she'd instantly regret her decision and come crawling back, but he hadn't understood her at all. It seems she spent more than a year analysing the idea in her head and once she took her decision, it was completely irreversible in her mind. She has never been happier. She radiates calm and happiness and has done since that day. She's no longer tense and moody, instead she's become calm, witty, loving. Her every minute is spent enjoying her younger siblings, Amaia in particular from whom she is inseperable. She made absolutely the right decision for her and it is clear in every way.
Today she surprised me again. We were in town. The weather was beautiful and there was a holiday atmosphere around the street cafés. Suddenly, unprompted once again, she asked me: "Take a photo of me in front of the Buchanan Street sign for when I change my name!" And then she grabbed Léon playfully and added: "And you might as well be in it too 'cause yours needs changed as well!" I am so proud of my strong little girl.
Because they load every photo rather than giving you thumbnails when you click on a set or photostream, you waste inordinate amounts of time looking for anything and I sometimes find myself giving up and just looking elsewhere - through my home archives and the likes. I am now considering trying to migrate my thousands of photos elsewhere just so I can start accessing them again. I defintely think they need to introduce a speedier version or a classic view or a thumbnail search if they aren't going to lose a number of trusty users.
In the meantime, I am away to testdrive Picasa. I didn't like it seven years ago but maybe it has impoved.
Thursday, July 11, 2013
I often think Amaia looks a little bit like a porcelain doll in photos. It's strange because she isn't particularly pale-skinned. Like all my kids, she has that continental darkness that means she never turns pink, just golden. Maybe it is the dark eyes, or the wispy hair... Whatever the reason, I think my baby is very beautiful!
Saturday, July 06, 2013
Friday, July 05, 2013
So that's the background... there we were eating lunch at the outside table - it was a lovely warm day. Suddenly Amaia, who'd finished and was wandering about on the lawn shouted across 'Why has Figaro not got his head on any more?' We carried on eating, it was such a seriously bizarre question, it seemed meaningless. She asked again, more insistently. We walked over and were confronted by this scene of horror. Don't click if you're easily upset (or eating!)
I presume a fox is to blame, but I really didn't need to find that on my neatly-cut grass. I'm hoping its head and leg aren't lying about somewhere I am intending to weed this weekend. Gulp.
Anyway, we decided to take it to the local vet and see if it had a chip in any of the remaining bits and if not assume that if it has been lost in the vicinity, the owner might ask there. I'll look out for any missing cat posters too over the coming days.
If you've heard of anyone whose cat is missing from near me, let me know and we'll try to work out how to break it to them gently...